Building Kingdom Relationships — From Singleness to Covenant.
Relationships don’t begin at the altar. They begin with who you are becoming. Wherever you are — single, dating, discerning, engaged, married, or rebuilding — there’s a next step for you here.
The GOT Relationships Process
Choose Your Path
GOT Relationships is the front door. Step into the community built for exactly where you are today.
Singleness · Dating · Discernment
For the Single & Seeking
Begin with identity, intention, and wisdom — building a whole, healed foundation so you meet your person already whole.
Enter GOT Singles
Engagement · Marriage · Restoration
For the Committed & Covenant
Strengthen your covenant, deepen intimacy, and build a marriage that keeps growing long after the wedding day.
Enter GOT MarriageWhere Are You on the Journey?
Every stage has a next step. Choose where you are today and we’ll meet you there.
Singleness
Become Before You Choose
Discover your identity, healing, and purpose before partnership — so you meet your person whole.
Dating
Date With Discernment
Move from chemistry to alignment — evaluating character, compatibility, and calling with wisdom.
Discernment
Chosen or Convenient?
Evaluate your relationship with clarity and godly counsel before you take the next step.
Engagement
Prepare for the Covenant
Premarital preparation that readies your hearts, expectations, and household for covenant.
Marriage
The Wedding Was the Beginning
Cultivate communication, intimacy, and shared vision so your marriage keeps growing.
Restoration
Restore. Reconnect. Realign.
Focused support for couples facing brokenness or disconnection — and ready to rebuild.
We are building healthier people who can build healthier relationships that can become healthier covenant marriages.
The 4 Pillars Underneath Every Stage
No matter where you are on the journey, everything we teach stands on these four pillars.
Covenant
Building relationships God’s way — a sacred covenant rooted in His Word, not just a contract.
Communication
Learning how to speak, listen, and understand one another with grace and truth.
Identity
Knowing who you are in Christ — and who you are becoming together.
Spiritual Alignment
Keeping God at the center so every relationship moves in Kingdom unity.
Featured Event
Gatherings Across the GOT Ecosystem
From worship nights to relationship workshops, our community gathers regularly to grow together. New dates are added often — see what’s coming next.
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Real people, at every stage of the journey.
“GOT Relationships helped me understand my identity and healing before I ever thought about dating. For the first time I feel grounded.”
“We came in engaged and anxious. The preparation we received completely changed how we started our marriage.”
“After a painful season, restoration felt impossible. This community walked with us all the way back to hope.”
Consuello Hodges
Coach C
A retired Lieutenant Colonel, Bronze Star recipient, and Iraq & Afghanistan war veteran, Coach C brings battlefield-tested leadership, strategic discipline, and spiritual insight to the GOT Relationships movement. With over 20 years counseling individuals, couples, and families, her work is grounded in professional training and lived experience.
Author of Purpose in the Pain and Survived Life’s Challenges, and host of “Coach C’s House” on Clubhouse — she leads GOT Relationships — overseeing GOT Singles and GOT Marriage — one of the fastest-growing faith-based relationship communities.
“To help people stop performing, start healing, and lead boldly in the truth of who they are.”
GOT CONNECTIONS
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Know Yourself.
Choose Wisely.
Prepare Intentionally.
Love Truthfully.
Build Covenant.
Stay Aligned.
God’s Over This.